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They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.

For foreign women it’s a completely different story.

A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.

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Another problem is that many of the Japanese men seem to be afraid of their English ability and thus fail to approach a foreign woman.

Most foreign men on the other hand, have no issues approaching a Japanese woman in English – or even in broken Japanese.

However, be warned: If you want to read about bragging stories of all those Western guys who get laid a hundred times per day, then you came to the wrong place. You certainly won’t find that here – and not from a foreign girl like me!

And at the same time there’s only a very tiny number of foreign (read: non-Asian) women with Japanese men next to them. Maybe that’s a secret we’ll never quite get, but there are many theories!

When I ask them about how they got their cellphone or credit card they just answer they don’t know because their wife did it for them.

Consequently they don’t see the need to study Japanese, because their wives will take care of it all.

Although they live in Japan and sometimes even have children together who also speak Japanese, the foreign guys don’t / can’t speak Japanese.

I also experienced that they’re unable to do anything on their own.

These are just a few theories by friends, co-workers and myself.

I’m sure you have your own and there’s much more behind all this, but that’s it for starters, I guess.

The complete opposite is the case for (Western) foreign women in Japan.

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